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WHAT IS BULLYING? A form of aggression that involves one or more students who verbally, physically or psychologically harass another student repeatedly over time. The attacks are directed at someone perceived as being weaker, more submissive or younger.
BULLYING BEHAVIORS INCLUDE: verbal taunts, name-calling and put-downs, threats and intimidation, extortion or stealing money or possessions, and exclusion from a peer group.
WHAT CAN SCHOOLS DO TO STOP IT? Promote adult awareness and involvement with bullies and victims. Provide appropriate supervision during recess and lunch hour. Require consistent and immediate consequences for aggressive behavior. Give generous praise for positive and helpful behavior. Set specific class rules against bullying.
Source: Wake County Public School System

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Information on Bullying and Bullying Victims

Who are the victims of bullying?  

"Victims tend to be loners who tend to cry easily, lack self-defense skills, aren't able to use humor in conflict situations or who don't think quickly on their feet. Children who have few friends are always easy prey for bullies. It's easier to pick on a lone child without witnesses.  Children who have special needs are also common victims for bullies."


Most victims of bullying are children with little or no self-esteem or confidence, for whatever reason.  Perhaps the child:


Has a disability

Has a stammer

Is bad at sports

Is new to the district

Has a different religion or belief

Wears different clothes

Has a different accent

Has a different nationality or color

Has an ear that sticks out


Dynamics of Bully-Victim Situations


A power differential exists between the bully and the victim.

Bullies tend to confident, aggressive, and lack empathy for the victim.

Bullies come from homes where there is poor supervision, and modeling of and tolerance for aggressive behavior.

Victims tend to be quiet, passive children with few friends.

Victims do not respond effectively to aggressive actions.

Bullying is often done so that adults are not aware of it.

Victims are ashamed, and often don't tell an adult.


This is an excerpt from the ASAP: A School-based Anti-Violence Program. 


Websites on Bullying

Featured Website: No Disposable Kids (NDK) - NDK is a nationally recognized training program designed to help today's educators create and maintain a healthy school environment for students and for staff. Bullying. Racism. Violence. NDK can give you the tools - and the know-how - to face and overcome hot-button issues like these on all levels. Teachers, students, staff, even bus drivers will learn the practical, prevention-oriented strategies that create safe, productive environments for learning and working.


Blueprints Model Programs Bullying Prevention Program (BPP) - In late 1982, a newspaper reported that three 10-14 year old boys from the northern part of Norway committed suicide as a consequence of severe bullying by peers. This event eventually resulted in a nationwide campaign against bully/victim problems in Norwegian primary and junior high schools, launched by the Ministry of Education in the fall of 1983. This successful Bullying Prevention Program was developed, refined, and systematically evaluated in an intervention project in Norway and has been implemented and adapted in the United States.

Featured Website: Discipline without Stress, Punishments or Rewards - How Leaders, Teachers, and Parents Promote Responsibility. Marvin Marshall details his Raise Responsibility System - a simple and amazingly effective approach that promotes responsibility, self-discipline, and learning.


Crisis Prevention Institute, Inc. - For more than 20 years, the Crisis Prevention Institute has supported the work of professionals who work with challenging or potentially violent individuals by providing a relevant, practical behavior management program. It’s called the Nonviolent Crisis Intervention® training program and more than 4.5 million professionals have participated in this program to learn how to resolve conflict at the earliest possible stage.

bullet - This portal site provides links to many resources that are helping many children, families, and professionals deal with teasing and bullying.
bullet Bully Beware - Bullying is one of the most underrated and enduring problems in schools today and is a reality in the lives of all children, whether they are bullies, victims or witnesses.
bullet Behavioral Interventions: Creating a Safe Environment in Our Schools - This is a pdf document from NASP. It deals with pro-social behavior, bullying, school violence and discipline. Download and print the pdf document.
bullet Bullying in Schools - an ERIC digest
bullet Committee for Children - curricula for preventing youth violence and child abuse.
bullet Early Warning, Timely Response: A guie to Safe Schools - Violence Prevention.
bullet National School Safety Center - Checklist of Characteristics of Youth Who Have Caused School-Associated Violent Deaths
bullet National Threat Assessment Center - The U.S. Secret Service (NTAC) was created to provide leadership and guidance regarding threat assessment. See their reports on preventing violence in our schools.
bullet Partnerships Against Violence (PAVNET)
bullet Raising Children to Resist Violence - Brochure published by the American Academy of Pediatrics.
bullet Resolving Conflict Creatively Program - RCCP is an effort of Educators for Social Responsibility (ESR), a non-profit organization devoted to making our nation's schools caring and violence-free environments. Contains helpful parent and teacher information. (212)509-0022.
bullet Virginia Youth Violence Project - preventing youth violence, especially at school.
bullet Warning Signs of Violent Behavior - a guide for teenagers.
bullet Web Sites Related to School Safety and Violence Prevention - an annotated list from the Center for Effective Collaboration and Practice.
bullet De-Myth-tifying the Classroom Bully Education World (Scroll down to see this important information on bullies.)
bullet Sticks and Stones May Break My Bones -- And Words Can Hurt, Too by Donna Smith, Children Today at
bullet What Works: Coping with Bullies
bullet Dealing with Bullies by Carol Watkins, MD
Character Counts & Character Education


Featured Website: Living Values Education - When viewed as an ongoing process, values-based education becomes part of a lifelong learning experience. Many opportunities can be found to integrate values-based education into existing curricula. These will vary from place to place according to cultural needs. It is in the spirit of cooperation that the Program was founded, recognizing we learn from one another.


Will Your Kids Be Of "Good Character"? - At some point parents wonder what kind of adult their child will grow up to be. Use this advice and beat the odds.


Live Wire Media Offers Character-Building Curricula - Character Counts! has partnered with Live Wire to create a "Six Pillars" series is written for grades K-5.


Schools Attempt to Teach Tough Lesson of Character - This year, schools must teach all students good habits and values, such as respect and honesty. The question: Will older students pay attention?


New Web Site Will Help Communities Develop Character Education Programs - The U.S. Department of Education's Office of Safe and Drug-Free Schools today unveiled its new Web site for the Character Education and Civic Engagement Technical Assistance Center (CETAC), or CETAC Online. CETAC provides state program administrators, local educators and the public with information on character education and civic engagement, as well as strategies that support academic goals and other reform efforts. This center will also provide support and information for and about schools involved in character education and civic engagement across the country.

EdWeek's Issues A-Z: Character Education - click here. Read a summary of the history of the character education movement in the United States and an overview of programs.


Character Education, Friendship & Manners Links from the Blount County Multi-Needs Center

MI Academy Teaches Character - Grant will let 3 schools track progress, use plan as national model.


The Eagle and the Knapsack - Character, we’ve been told, is what you are in the dark, when no one’s looking.


For more information visit CHARACTER COUNTS!: a nonprofit, nonpartisan, nonsectarian coalition of schools, communities and nonprofit organizations working to advance character education by teaching the Six Pillars of Character: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and citizenship.


Love & Logic

Love and Logic Website -


Read the article "Expert says consequence is powerful teacher in life"

School Violence & Zero Tolerance
Zero Tolerance Rules Can Doom Some Good Students - Walking into central-city schools, through metal detectors and security officers, feels a little like walking into one of Michigan's 34 state prisons. Sometimes I think that's what we're preparing kids for. The school-to-prison pipeline starts with suspensions and expulsions that lead to idleness, falling back and dropping out. Nearly 80% of prisoners listed truancy as their first offense, reports the U.S. Department of Justice.
Should Parents Be Criminally Liable for Their Children's Cyberbullying? - After 12-year-old Rebecca Sedwick of Florida jumped to her death from a tower in an abandoned concrete plant in late 2013, two classmates were charged with tormenting the girl so viciously on social media and in person that she committed suicide, but much of the blame landed, not on the two classmates, but on their parents. Lawyer Mark O’Mara drafted legislation to hold parents criminally liable for their children’s cyberbullying saying that parents who let their children "use social media as a weapon need to wake the hell up.”


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